How to put a knuckle-Dragger back in their box in one easy lesson!
Recently, my attention was drawn to a post about Peter on a Facebook group page called UK Nostalgia Vibes. While it started out reasonably civilised, it soon descended into the usual carnage with every clown and knuckle-dragger within earshot giving us the benefit of their professed ‘privileged knowledge’.
The following comes courtesy of some faceless woman by the name of Gaynor Field, who regaled us with a tale that her ex husband spun to her and which she, clearly having no disenable powers for independent thought, greedily consumed and regurgitated it for our delectation.
Right: From the original UK Nostalgia Vibe post.

Field: (Describing Peter): “Bent as a nine bob note. My ex husband and his workmates were working on a whole row of houses in Chelsea, can’t remember what it was called now, but Madonna had one, they had an underground car park, swimming pools in the basement, etc, and he (Peter?) would be outside every morning, cup of tea/coffee and fag in hand, wearing little white hot pants and staring at all the different tradesmen, “Morning boys”, he’d say, my ex said he made his skin crawl, this was in the late 80’s.
Me: I was with Peter for 30 years, right up to his death in 2018, and I can assure you that he wasn’t “as bent as a nine bob note” then!

The properties to which you refer were at Earl’s Terrace in Kensington, not Chelsea. The houses and flats there were completely refurbished in 1996, not in the late 80’s. I know that for a fact because I was living with Peter there at the time – he’d moved from No.1 to No.7 while the work was being carried out.
He did often wear shorts, but never “little white hot pants”, as he jogged every day – often twice day – and also played tennis. In this picture (see pic below) you can see the type of shorts he wore. I bought two pairs for him myself. As anyone can see, these are everyday men’s sports shorts, NOT “little white hot pants”. And for the record, Peter quit smoking in 1979, so wouldn’t have had “a fag in his hand” either..
I remember very well the workmen being there as I spoke with them myself on occasion. I recall one of them telling us about his wife who’d been a life-long Jason King fan. Peter and I would often make tea for them and take out biscuits. It’s desperately sad that this was construed by your “ex” as something more sinister (no good deed ever goes unpunished?!). I suggest that what your “ex” told you says far more about him than it ever could about my Peter. Perhaps said “ex” was secretly pissed because Peter showed no interest in him, or that there was obviously a woman on the scene, and so concocted this story in lieu of a full-on hissy fit(?) Either way, it makes my skin crawl to hear such nonsense!
Poor Gaynor’s “ex” was evidently the end product of blind belief in tabloid tittle-tattle, combined with his own in-bred bigotry. He construed a friendly “Hello” as something more sinister, and not only that, he went home and spun a yarn to his gullible wife who, years later, repeated it on a gossip forum.
I find that people like silly Gaynor, when challenged by someone who was actually there and knows what they’re talking about, will either slither back under the stone from where they originated in the vain hope that no-one has noticed what a complete and utter fool they’re made of themselves, or when they realise they’ve been skewered, will resort to foul-mouth abuse and personal insults because they have nowhere else to go.
Gullible Gaynor’s Score’s On The Doors are:
Resorted to foul language and personal abuse when she realised she’d been skewered?
Quickly crawled back under the stone from whence she came
Was wracked with remorse at being so cowardly as to tell outrageous lies about someone who was no longer here to defend himself
X

✔

X

Here’s a few more corkers for your delectation…
Robert Watson: He (Peter) was just a little bit gay though.
Me: He wasn’t during the 30 year relationship I had with him. Or when he was in relationships with actresses Pamela Galloway, Dorinda Stevens, Ruby Talbot, Vivien Leigh, Mary Ure, Anna Massey, Diana Dors, Kay Shanton and Elisabeth Skjorekjole (both models), Sally Home, Nyree Dawn Porter, Lady Victoria Berkley… the list goes on. I suspect you never came within a 1,000 radius of him during his lifetime, OR anyone who knew him. Your spectacular insight is doubtless based on tabloid tittle-tattle, internet gossip and that font of all knowledge, Wikipedia.
Robert Watson:: ok (sic) calm down’
Me: You do know that penis enlargers are widely available online, so there’s no need for you to attack people who are no longer here to defend themselves and lash out at women to feel more of a man!
On realising that he’d had his chair kicked out from under him, Watson went to the only defence he had, misogyny! The “ok calm down” jibe was his way of saying “Right! I’m taking my ball home now because I realise I’ve been beaten by a woman!”. Another case of those knowing the least knowing it the loudest.
Watson’s Score’s On The Doors are:
Resorted to foul language and personal abuse when he realised he’d been skewered?
Quickly crawled back under the stone from whence he came
Was wracked with remorse at being so cowardly as to tell outrageous lies about someone who was no longer here to defend himself
✔

X

X
Knuckle-Dragger Score (out of five)

No Name: “I saw him (Peter) at a film fair. He was wearing a baseball cap that he’d written FCUK on the front of it in gold ink” (This post attracted the grand total of 4 laughing emojis, not counting Mr. No Name’s own).
The inane laughter ended abruptly when I said, “The cap was a gift from his 9-year old godson who had terminal cancer. Not so hilarious now!”
Mr. No-Names Score’s On The Doors are:
Resorted to foul language and personal abuse when he realised he’d been skewered?
Quickly crawled back under the stone from whence he came
Was wracked with remorse at being so cowardly as to tell outrageous lies about someone who was no longer here to defend himself
X

✔

X
Knuckle-Dragger Score (out of five)

Bowlocks: Heartthrob. He was a joke!
Me: Really? He was one of the most respected actors of the British stage; won praise from all quarters, and was presented with some of the most coveted awards in international theatre and television. Out of interest, what have you achieved that affords you the luxury of sitting in judgement of others?
George Bowlocks: (Unable to answer my question, all he could come back with was….) We thought he was hilarious when I was at school. A peacock.
Me: I’m sure he would’ve reciprocated given the opportunity.
George Bowlocks: That makes no sense. Do you mean he would have thought we were a peacock? Also, what are converted awards?
Me: No. He wouldve thought you were a joke! And for the record, the word is COVETED not CONVERTED. Perhaps if you and your mates had paid more attention when you was at school and spent less time poking fun at people you considered a “joke”, you may well have spotted that!
When he realised he’d painted him into a corner, poor ol’ George began blathering on about women “creaming their knickers” over Peter in the 1970’s. When he finally clocked that he was screaming abuse at someone who’d shared a 30-year relationship with Peter as opposed to a hysterical fan, he seemingly disappeared up his own backside. I dare say that a charmer like him would’’ve had women fighting like wild cats to “cream” their draws over him!
Bowlock’s Score’s On The Doors are:
Resorted to foul language and personal abuse when he realised he’d been skewered?
Quickly crawled back under the stone from whence he came
Was wracked with remorse at being so cowardly as to tell outrageous lies about someone who was no longer here to defend himself
✔

X

X
Knuckle-Dragger Score (out of five)

Price: I met him in the 70s and he was much more interested in my boyfriend than any of the women. He was positively rude to me.
Me::Genuinely, you’re the first person I’ve ever come across who claims that Peter was rude to them. He has only ever been described as charming, gentlemanly and kind. Perhaps he was having a bad day, or didn’t much care for the company of certain people in the group.
Price: possibly. I certainly didn’t like him. Maybe he thought I was in his way!
Me: How so – like you were sitting in his seat? Or blocking the corridor, perhaps?
Again, this is the result of what you get with the type of people who put their blind faith in gutter rag tittle-tattle.
Lesley’s Score’s On The Doors are:
Resorted to foul language and personal abuse when she realised she’d been skewered?
Quickly crawled back under the stone from whence he came
Was wracked with remorse at being so cowardly as to tell outrageous lies about someone who was no longer here to defend himself
X

✔

X
Knuckle-Dragger Score (out of five)

The next Freudian delight is Peter Dron, who made this extremely intelligent observation on Facebook in response to the posting of an image of Peter and Lucille Ball in the TV special, ‘Lucy In London‘: “Wyngarde was certainly a curio, it is alleged.”
Me: “I assume your conclusions are based entirely on tabloid newspaper reports that have long since been discredited? I had a 30 year relationship with Peter – from 1992 to 2018 when he passed away. He was a wonderfully kind, intelligent and talented man, who is deeply missed by those of us loved him.”
Dron: “Fair enough. However, there was the case some years earlier involving “gross indecency with a crane driver in public toilets in Gloucester bus station” to which Mr Cyril Goldbert pleaded guilty. Curious, indeed.”
Me: “Actually, he DIDN’T plead guilty, and you’ll find that that conviction was inevitably quashed by the Home Office as being “unproven”. That is a matter of public record. Keep up!
Dron: And I presume that Alan Bates was just a “chum”, whatever you choose that to mean.
Me: Oh dear – a Donald Spoto devotee. Peter was married to actress Dorinda Stevens for 5 years. Had a five year relationship with Vivien Leigh. Also had relationships with Mary Ure, Diana Dors, Nyree Dawn Porter; models Kay Shanton and Elisabeth Skjortekjole plus several women outside the theatrical world. I note you haven’t mentioned any of them. This is why there’s an old adage that states that a little knowledge is such a dangerous thing. Perhaps if you tried to educate yourself BEFORE making wild postulations based on the work of a single author who was known in the industry as “Mr. Sensationalism” (look Spoto up) and see for yourself the kind of rubbish he peddled about other actors and directors.
Dron: Or perhaps you are tolerant and not exceptionally observant.
Me: Dear God! Have you heard yourself? Your level of arrogance is truly breath taking! I spent thirty years with that man, during which time we shared a relationship of complete transparency. I had direct access to his private letters, diaries, and extensive documentation dating back to the early 1950’s. In contrast, there you stand with your copy of The Mirror or The Sun tucked under your arm – believing they had some privileged insight, rather than being nothing but malevolent muckrakers who were making it up as they went along!
In 2020, I published a book specifically to refute the baseless rumours that individuals like yourself continue to propagate. In that work, I presented irrefutable, first-hand documentary evidence to substantiate my claims, something none of the gutter rags or trashy authors you rely on were ever able to do. Much of this evidence is available on my website at www.peterwyngarde.uk and in numerous public records that are available to everyone online, free of charge. Why don’t you have a look – you might actually learn something.
I suggest you look beyond the filth peddled by the tabloids. In the meantime, you might care to ponder on this: Imagine how you would feel if some random, ill-informed idiot popped up online one day and began spreading lies and long-discredited myths regarding one of YOUR loved ones and then refused to acknowledge the facts when confronted. I suspect you would find the experience distressing; So why do you feel it’s acceptable to do it to one of mine?
Oh, what’s the point? Where there’s no sense, there’s no feeling! If nothing else, you’ve provided me with useful material for a section of my website dedicated to highlighting just this type of idiotic encounter. You’ll definitely be in good company.
It’s typical of people like Dron, who seems far more willing to place their faith in sensationalist tabloid claims and the word of a widely criticised author than in the testimony of someone who actually shared Peter’s life for three decades. Rather than weighing evidence carefully or considering the value of first-hand knowledge, he appeared eager to accept dramatic headlines and second-hand gossip as unquestionable truth. It’s a curious position to take, given that a person who spent thirty years alongside someone would naturally possess a far deeper understanding of their character, experiences, and private life than journalists chasing a story or repeating rumours.
What makes Dron appear particularly small-minded is his apparent readiness to loudly express his opinions before ensuring he is in full possession of the facts. Instead of listening, asking questions, or examining all available information, he rushed to judgement with great confidence and very little humility. Such behaviour can give the impression of someone more interested in proving himself right than in discovering the truth. When a person chooses assumptions and headlines over direct knowledge and lived experience, it inevitably raises questions about the fairness and credibility of their conclusions.
Dron’s Score’s On The Doors are:
Resorted to foul language and personal abuse when he realised he’d been skewered?
Quickly crawled back under the stone from whence he came
Was wracked with remorse at being so cowardly as to tell outrageous lies about someone who was no longer here to defend himself
X

✔

X
Knuckle-Dragger Score (out of five)

It is evident that many of the individuals mentioned above lack the necessary insight to contribute meaningfully to any discussion about Peter. Rather than abstaining from the conversation, they have chosen to post unsubstantiated claims that only serve to highlight their lack of understanding. Inevitably, the subject of the 1975 Gloucester Bus Station incident was raised… AGAIN!… a matter that was effectively resolved by the British Home Office some years ago. Furthermore, several participants claimed that Peter had been arrested in Newcastle, Southampton, Portsmouth, Birmingham, Nottingham and even at Hyde Park Corner. Given the frequency of these alleged incidents, one wonders how he found the time to maintain his acting career!
It appears unlikely that any of these individuals fully grasped the points raised when they were challenged. A few were contrite upon realising they’d been looking down the wrong end of the telescope all these years; others, however, resorted to abusive language when they realised they had nowhere else to go.
There were, nonetheless, a few absurd moments. One gentleman claimed that Peter had resided in a castle in Northumberland. When I mentioned that this was news to me, he asserted that Peter had made public appearances there and claimed a personal connection to the owner. He subsequently provided a screenshot of a post by said friend. It transpired that the castle is, in fact, a hotel, and Peter had simply stayed there a couple of times while working at the Forum Billingham Theatre. Consequently, he hadn’t “lived” there at all!
Predictably, the original post was shared across several Facebook groups, attracting a further wave of opportunistic critics who professed to be well-informed. One individual commented on a photo of Peter, describing him as “camp as Christmas.” I pointed out that this supposedly effete man had maintained a series of relationships with women, all of whom I have previously named. The response from this individual was that, despite these relationships, he “preferred his own type.” I asked him, given his purported expertise, to provide the names of these men – not least because many of Peter’s friends with whom I’ve remained in contact would no doubt appreciated being enlightened by such privileged insight. Despite my providing an email address to facilitate a discreet response, I have yet to hear from this character – a result that is hardly surprising. As with everyone mentioned here, not one person was able to provide evidence to support ANY of their claims when pressed.
This behaviour is a textbook example of the Dunning-Kruger Effect, a psychological condition where individuals with limited competence overestimate their own ability and speak with unearned authority on subjects they have no understanding of.
While Peter received critical acclaim for his work both domestically and internationally, those who delight in spreading misinformation from behind the safety of a computer screen have likely achieved very little of note. They seem to measure success by the number of “laughing” emojis they can accumulate. It is, however, quite satisfying to see that confidence vanish when confronted with the truth.
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Here are an couple more examples of the mentality of the internet gossip–monger
One of the most bizarre encounters I’ve ever had with the dazed and confused occurred back in September 2021.It came courtesy of Frank – a 75-year-old gentleman, who rather loudly stated on social media that Peter was a “Pervert” because – to quote him – “He was convicted of Gross Indecency in 1975 in Gloster (sic).”
While the arrest may well have been so, such a conviction alone does not necessarily mean that someone is a “Pervert”. Therefore, I inquired of this obviously bewildered old man what further evidence he possessed to support this rather severe accusation. “Well,” he snorted, “he was also cautioned for the same offence in Birmingham. That makes him a perv,” he asserted with all the conviction of his own intellect. Really?! “And from where did you obtain this information?”
“It’s on Google.”
“And where, pray, did Google source it from?” I probed. Not unsurprisingly, the ridiculous old goat was unable to provide an answer, and so I filled the deafening silence he was creating by regaling him with what had REALLY happened concerning this alleged incident – namely that it was a tale concocted by a contributor to the Peter Wyngarde ‘biography’ on Wikipedia in 2012. I then directed him to all the gathered evidence presented on our website that unequivocally scotches the rumour.
So what effect did this revelation have on gullible Frank when he realised he’d not only been barking up the wrong tree, but was in entirely the wrong forest?
“But it still says it on Google,” he whimpered. Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear!
I felt compelled to explain to the old fool in the simplest language I could possibly muster that, Google is a search engine, and as long as wizened idiots like himself kept feeding it garbage like strawberries to a donkey, it will continue to spew garbage out! I asked how he would react if someone was to circulate spurious gossip on a public forum about one of his loved ones? He couldn’t even manage so much as a gaseous whinny to what I believed was a perfectly reasonable question, before vanishing back into the cesspit from whence he came.
Poor, poor Frank! It really does make you wonder how such people manage to reach such a ripe old age when they’re obviously devoid of even the most basic logic.
It appears that humanity has progressively diminished its capacity for independent thought. This is exemplified by individuals who encounter anonymous statements online and accept them as fact without question, then replicating and disseminating such information. It seldom occurs to these characters to investigate the source of the information: whether the author was directly involved in the event, a first-hand witness, or possessed a personal relationship with Peter. Furthermore, they fail to consider if the source attended a court hearing or possesses privileged documents, such as witness statements or official transcripts.
Given that the answer to these questions is almost invariably “no,” there’s little justification for the circulation of scandalous rumours. It’s highly probable that such individuals would never approach a stranger in person to levy accusations of being a “pervert” against a family member or friend. As boxer Mike Tyson once observed, “Social media has made people far too comfortable saying things without getting a punch on the nose!”
The second portion of absurdity on the agenda came from a woman called Margaret, who asserted that her brother had, at one time or another, lived “near” Peter in London. He’d regaled her with tales of how he used to see our man in his car – cruising around Kensington and Chelsea with his “toy boys.” When I questioned this, Margaret’ abruptly shifted the identity of the eyewitness from her “brother” to herself: “The young men,” she insisted, “all appeared to be foreign.” How on earth could she possibly know that? Were they all adorned in keffiyehs or silk kimonos and playing the Balalaika? And when exactly did this occur? “In the late 60s or early 70s. He [Peter] then went to ground.” Oh, really!

In the late 1960s and early 1970s, the sole vehicle Peter owned was a two-seater Austin-Healey ‘Frogeye’. Therefore, unless he was attempting to re-enacting a scene from the classic British game show, ‘It’s A Knockout’, I find it difficult to comprehend how many “foreign toy boys” one could possibly shoehorn into such a car?!
Left: An illustration of what Peter’s car likely resembled in the 1960’s, at least according to dear old Margaret... or was it her brother…?
I presume that the point she was trying to convey was that Peter frequently drove around the Royal Boroughs of London accompanied by a group of young, exotic men, which, in her tiny, tiny mind (or indeed her “brother’s” – who can tell?!), unequivocally indicated that they were his romantic partners. Did this, in her view, provide a comprehensive understanding of Peter’s entire existence? Alas, I was never able to ascertain this, as Margaret would abruptly ‘go to ground’ once she recognised she’d backed herself into a corner! Now, if I were to be uncharitable, I might speculate that her sudden withdrawal from the field of play was related to her argument collapsing under scrutiny, but let us extend her the benefit of the doubt, shall we?
For Margaret’s information if no one else’s – during the late 1960s and early 1970s, Peter was at the pinnacle of his fame. He was the highest-paid actor on British television and was performing to sold-out audiences in the West End of London. How this could possibly be interpreted as ‘going to ground’ remains a mystery, but it’s likely that the old dear was becoming somewhat confused.
It’s highly probable that dear ol’ Margaret – or was it her brother, as she seemed uncertain of the detail – had seen Peter in his ‘Frogeye’ with A.N. Other male, such as a friend, fellow actor or his personal assistant, and initially gave the matter little thought. However, courtesy of tabloid tittle-tattle post 1975, a revisionist interpretation began to take hold. Occasional sightings of Peter with another man was retrospectively transformed from a mundane day-to-day encounter into something far more salacious. The narrative shifted dramatically; the two-seater sports car was reimagined as a conveyance for a succession of foreign male lovers, whose presence was apparently signalled so thunderously that their distinct accents could be heard by her (or her sibling?! Now I’M becoming confused!!). It’s little wonder that such baseless myths continue to circulate online regarding Peter, when basket cases like Margaret are somehow able to put 2 and 2 together and come up with 95!
Rumours are carried by haters,
Spread by fools
and accepted by idiots!
Ziad K. Abdelnour – Author
See the Open Letter that was sent to the admin of the UK Nostalgia Vibe, his reply and Wyngarde fans reaction here.

















































































